You are master of your own destiny
You play the leading role in this stage production we call “Living Our Life. Whether you believe it or not, you are master of your own destiny. As we grow into adulthood, we make decisions based on how we wish to lead our life to fulfil our dreams and our life’s purpose.
Our initial journey through life commences with direction and guidance from our peers, family and friends. We then learn how to deal with and learn from the consequences of the actions and decisions we make, and how they may affect us and the people around us. Sometimes, when we become immersed in life and all its ups and downs, we can lose sight of our goal and become disillusioned when our dreams and aspirations have failed to manifest.
Our initial journey through life commences with direction and guidance from our peers, family and friends. We then learn how to deal with and learn from the consequences of the actions and decisions we make, and how they may affect us and the people around us. Sometimes, when we become immersed in life and all its ups and downs, we can lose sight of our goal and become disillusioned when our dreams and aspirations have failed to manifest.
Consider your life as a play or drama
Let us consider your life, in terms of it being a play or drama, or a stage production. Imagine you are the producer of a play called “My Life”. You are also the director, along with playing the leading role in this play. You wrote the script and you choose the players.
The players in this play are all the people you interact with in your life. They include your family, friends, work colleagues and every person you come into contact with on a day-to-day basis throughout your life.
Other players may come and go but this is still your own play. You make all the decisions. You do all the hiring and firing and you have all the power and the ability to change the script, as you deem necessary or desirable at any time.
As you look back on your life it is important to realise that every decision you have made has brought you to where you are now. Every action, incident, event, situation and experience has created the you, you are today in this real-life stage production.
The players in this play are all the people you interact with in your life. They include your family, friends, work colleagues and every person you come into contact with on a day-to-day basis throughout your life.
Other players may come and go but this is still your own play. You make all the decisions. You do all the hiring and firing and you have all the power and the ability to change the script, as you deem necessary or desirable at any time.
As you look back on your life it is important to realise that every decision you have made has brought you to where you are now. Every action, incident, event, situation and experience has created the you, you are today in this real-life stage production.
The question is; where are you now in your play of life?
- Are you in a situation at the moment where you feel that you are no longer controlling the direction of this drama or play?
- Do you feel that you no longer have a space of your own or your time is no longer your own?
- Do you feel you been pushed aside by family, friends, relations or work colleagues?
- Are there more and more people making demands on your space, your time, and your finances?
- Do you feel at times that your voice is not being heard?
- Do you feel at times other actors are not listening to you?
- Have your forgotten where you are, who you are or where you fit into your life’s stage production?
- Are you wandering around aimlessly, not knowing which direction you are heading?
- Have you forgotten what it’s like to be master of your own destiny?
The stage itself has not changed, but all the actors in your play may seem to write in whatever parts suit them, and write out the parts that do not suit them.
Have you now lost control over your play?
You may believe at some level that you have now lost control over your play, as everyone around you continues to re-write the script, directing it as they please and have taken over the production of this play called “My Life”.
There may be many players now playing various parts from different plays on your stage. You may no longer be playing the leading role in this play. It used to be your stage, your play, your production, but you got pushed aside over the years, and you may now feel very unhappy with this situation.
Have you lost sight of your original character and forgotten the fact that you had the power to change the script to suit you at any time when you felt it was necessary?
What can you do now, to change the situation and take back the reins and take control of the play based on what you want from life?
Remember you are the writer of this play you call “My Life”. Yes, you are still the writer, the director and producer, plus, you are still the main character, and you can once again take over the leading role in this play.
It’s not as hopeless as it might seem. After all you wrote the original play, but in trying to accommodate everyone else, you may have allowed your own role to diminish. The important thing to remember is that this is your play and only you can resolve any problems at this moment in time.
There may be many players now playing various parts from different plays on your stage. You may no longer be playing the leading role in this play. It used to be your stage, your play, your production, but you got pushed aside over the years, and you may now feel very unhappy with this situation.
Have you lost sight of your original character and forgotten the fact that you had the power to change the script to suit you at any time when you felt it was necessary?
What can you do now, to change the situation and take back the reins and take control of the play based on what you want from life?
Remember you are the writer of this play you call “My Life”. Yes, you are still the writer, the director and producer, plus, you are still the main character, and you can once again take over the leading role in this play.
It’s not as hopeless as it might seem. After all you wrote the original play, but in trying to accommodate everyone else, you may have allowed your own role to diminish. The important thing to remember is that this is your play and only you can resolve any problems at this moment in time.
So, what action can you take now?
Maybe you could write a whole new scene in this play. You can write it the way you want it to unfold and develop. You could take back the role of director and producer, and give yourself the role once again of the leading character in this new and exciting scene. This may take time, and you may need to be more selective with the type of players you choose to play supporting roles.
You can create new boundaries for yourself, that will be respected by other people.
You can regain control over your life and your play
Remember, that no matter how powerless you may feel, you are still the master of your own destiny.
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You can create new boundaries for yourself, that will be respected by other people.
You can regain control over your life and your play
- Since you control the stage lighting, you can highlight hope rather than hopelessness.
- The theme of the play can focus on joy rather than misery.
- You can decide whether your theatre is filled with tears or laughter.
- You can choose the aspects of your life to which you will give prominence.
- Your life is your very own play, and you have the power to play it out, whatever way you choose.
- This is your play and you have the power to re-write it, direct it, produce it, and play it out the way you want it to be.
Remember, that no matter how powerless you may feel, you are still the master of your own destiny.
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